“What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two people.”
Friendships – where would we be without them?
Dear Reader, I am writing this not from my usual desk but from the house of a good friend – one who has featured here on my page several times. Lately, there’s been a lot going on with me and even more going on with those close to me. Things are changing. Without going into specifics, so far this year there have been transitions, deaths, relocations, family issues, misunderstandings and breakdowns going on all around me. This week, it all kind of caught up with me and I crashed.
So here I am, having been offered shelter and care at a friend’s for a few days.
Staying with her has been a most welcome break from my normal routine – life has slowed down and I’m getting more done, focusing. Most of all it has just been good having company and being cared for. It does feel a bit strange, though. Usually I’m the one taking care of others, not being taken care of, but it’s nice being on the other side of it.
Friends are so much more than just support when we are down, though.
They are company and kinship and belonging, an extended family making life into something worth living. You can get by with only a few close friends, of course – sometimes just one well-chosen friend may be more valuable than scores of more superficial acquaintances.
Friendship is one of the most valuable things you can have. Treasure it.
- Read – Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland & Through the Looking Glass; C. S. Lewis
- Watch – Drive; Nicholas Winding Refn
- Listen – Fidelity; Jasmine Thompson